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A Letter to Isla: Before You Become a Big Sister

To our sweet, fiesty first born: thank you for choosing us to be your parents.

The other morning, while snuggling with you on the couch, you put your tiny hand on my belly and said “Hi little baby! You feeling okay in there?” and gave it a big kiss. You are SO ready for your upcoming promotion to big sister…but are we ready to see you grow up? There is so much joy in this process, but it also feels so bittersweet.

I vividly remember getting two lines on the pregnancy test just a few days before Christmas, and crying hard. Not out of happiness, nor fear (okay, maybe a little shock), but mostly due to the fact that you weren’t going to be the baby anymore.

For 3 years and (almost) 9 months, it’s just been the three of us. Your dad and I taking a million photos/videos, hanging on to every milestone and every word you say, and saying to each other at least 20 times a day “She’s just the cutest.”.

It’s also been filled with us being pushed to our limits with your tantrums, only to get choked up at an “I love you mom and dad!”, or even just watching you sleep. I will always remember the days of just us.

You changed our lives in the most challenging, joyful ways when you arrived on that foggy Thanksgiving morning almost 4 years ago. Each year with you has been such a learning experience for us, one that has taught us compassion, patience, sacrifice, and unconditional love. We’ve grown up a little with you, and we’re so much better for it.

Although this is our second go around with a baby, it will be a lot of firsts for you.  It will be the first time in your life that you’ll have to share our attention, your toys, and your space.  It will be a lot of change – and I expect that might feel a little scary or frustrating for you at first, but just know that we will do our best to make you feel just as loved as you are, and always have been.  You were our first.

Now with just one month to go, we wait for our littlest one to arrive and complete our family. The idea of loving someone else as BIG as we love you feels impossible, but I know our hearts will grow, and just as you’ve been teaching us these last 4 years, you’ll show us the way this time, too.

We love you, sweet girl. Always.

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A Smied Baby – Round Two!

Do you remember when I posted about our house growing, and how I got a lot of comments from people asking “wait, does this mean your family is growing?” and I said “noooooooo!”?

That was a lie. Sorry!

The cutest big sister!

It was too early to announce then, but here it is: Baby Smied #2 is due to arrive at the end of August! We are relieved the secret is out – the first trimester is tough when you’re feeling nauseous, exhausted, in shock, and can’t tell anyone. Now that we’re through that, we’re excited to document the rest of the pregnancy. Isla is so, SO excited to be a big sister – and we can’t wait to meet this little one who will complete our family.

I found out the week before Christmas, so this Etsy onesie was perfect to surprise Jeremy. I of course can’t keep a secret and spilled the beans before it even shipped, but it’s cute nonetheless.

This was one of those planned, but also totally unplanned situations. We’d been talking about trying, and thinking it would take the better part of a year like it did with Isla. Well friends, apparently once you’ve been pregnant once, your uterus is basically like I KNOW THE WAY, and boom. Surprise!

Holy S*#t.

How am I feeling?
As of right now, almost 4 months along, I’m just about back to normal. The first trimester sucks, but so far this one has been easier overall than my first pregnancy. With Isla, I was nauseous all day for about a month straight. I hated everyone, and food – it was miserable. Once my energy and appetite came back, I wanted ALL THE CARBS.

With this pregnancy, I was only really nauseous when I let myself get too hungry, or too full. I generally felt the worst in the timeframe after dinner until bed, which worked out great because it didn’t interfere with work. That really only lasted 3 weeks, and I was able to manage it pretty well with little snacks throughout the day instead of big meals.

Now that the nausea has passed, my energy levels are off the charts compared to pre-pregnancy, and I’m hungry ALL the time. The weirdest part? I crave red meat – I was concerned that this might be related to low iron levels, but testing showed they’re totally normal – this baby just wants greasy burgers and steaks. Every pregnancy is different!

With this being my second time around, my belly is already unmistakably out there – I haven’t been able to button my pants for a few weeks. With Isla, it wasn’t until about 16-17 weeks before I looked definitely pregnant rather than just a taco bell enthusiast. This time, it was about 13 weeks when there just wasn’t any hiding it anymore, although I’ve gained the same amount that I did by this time with Isla.

Are you finding out what you’re having?
We are doing the same as we did with our first pregnancy and leaving the gender a surprise until birth.

Does Isla know?
Yes! We waited until 12 weeks to tell her, because she loves to talk and we knew that she would tell everyone. She is really excited to be a big sister, but changes her mind every few days as to whether it’s a baby boy or girl. We’ll find out soon enough!

For those of you with 2+ kiddos – what were your favorite “big sister” books? I’m trying to find some for Isla, so she has a better understanding before the baby is born.

Now we’re really scrambling to figure out our renovation timeline – with this baby on the way, we need the extra room more than ever! Thanks for following along with us on this crazy journey – stay tuned!

Home Improvement

This Old House is Growing!

You probably read that title and thought that meant baby, didn’t you. Although Isla keeps asking for a “chubby brother” (no idea where this came from), I’m talking about our actual house – not my belly.

The real news: We’re renovating! 

We’ve gone back and forth between moving and adding on for the better part of 2 years. After running some numbers, looking at the (crazy) housing market, and considering our 5 year plans, it was clear that renovating would is the best option for us. 

So, here we are!  We finally pulled the trigger last fall and started working with an architect, and it’s been really exciting!

We’re adding a master suite, and a few bumpouts.  In the second phase, we’ll be gutting the kitchen, and taking down some walls to make our boxy 1900 layout more open.  Seeing the sketches of what our place is going to turn into, makes me so excited – even more so, I’m excited to be a part of this house’s story, leaving it in better shape than we found it.  Always be a good steward of your spaces.

The plans are about 60% done – we just got through the initial design phases and are moving on to the construction drawings soon. We’re enjoying the process, and will update here with our progress.

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I’m baaaaaaack…

Did you think I abandoned the blog? You were right.

Last year was challenging, busy, and full of life changes. Transitioning into being the parent of a happy little toddler to the parent of an adorable but completely irrational two-year-old. I also started a new job, working for the employer I’d been trying to get hired by for years – and I’ve spent the better part of the last year learning my new role.

With all of that being said, I’m sure you understand where I went. Life has been busy, and blogging is a big time commitment – so this place was put on the back burner.

Now that things have calmed a bit (not the irrational toddler part – we’re officially approaching threenager status), I feel like I have more time to come back here and share a little bit more of what’s been going on with us. While originally this was a DIY blog, this space will transition into more of a middle of the road home/family blog. A place where we can share what we’ve been up to, as well as all the love we’re still pouring into our old farmhouse. We’re planning a major renovation in the next year, so that’s exciting!

I guess I just came to say I’m still here, and if you’re still reading – thanks.

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